I grew up in the 60’s when there were still really strict constructs for how women should behave and what our roles should be. Outside the box thinkers were discouraged. We were not supposed to be critical thinkers and ask too many questions. In fact, many...
Lately many of my clients have had some interesting relationship challenges. Some are struggling with intimate partners and others with friends, colleagues or acquaintances. No matter who it is, misunderstanding and miscommunication are the words that keep emerging....
With several of my new clients, our initial conversations often include the question, “What’s wrong with me?” I have asked myself and my therapist that same question so many times. In the old days, I would ask the question and then eat a TON of chocolate. Today, I...
Recently I was traveling home from overseas. I had been traveling for 23 hours and was feeling tired and a bit disconnected. I gathered my things as we departed the plane and moved easily through customs. Just past the customs gate, I realized I had left my...
As I support clients through my business coaching I am often asked this question. “How do I live a purpose driven life?” I immediately tell them “to live your dreams, you must reframe your disappointments, seeming failures and mistakes. It is imperative to view...
I recently had someone that I have cared for and supported over the years ask me to do something that did not feel good to me. They were in a lot of pain from a challenging life experience. My stomach constricted which is always a sign that I should pause and...
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